First Steps to Realizing Your Passion / Purpose

September 3, 2008 in Growing · Written by Tara Joyce · Follow Me on Twitter


Before I decided to start my innerpreneurial business, Elastic Mind, I did some serious soul searching. I realized that the path I was taking wasn’t working for me and that I needed to find my passion in life. But I realized before I could do that, I needed to better understand who I was and what I needed.

The below steps helped me to find my passion and I hope they help you to find yours.

1. Understand Yourself

“Whatever the circumstances of your life, the understanding of type can make your perceptions clearer, your judgements sounder, and your life closer to your heart’s desire.” – Isabel Briggs Myers

Take the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator personality test and figure out who you are.

The Myers-Briggs type indicator has been used since the 1940’s to help individuals identify the sort of jobs where they would be “most comfortable and effective”.

The indicator defines 16 possible psychological types which emulate your unique approach to the world, to information, to decisions, and to other people.

The test determines the following aspects (or dichotomies) of your personality:

Favorite world: Do you prefer to focus on the outer world [Extraversion (E)] or on your own inner world [Introversion (I)]?

Information: Do you prefer to focus on the basic information you take in [Sensing (S)] or do you prefer to interpret and add meaning [Intuition (N)]?

Decisions: When making decisions, do you prefer to first look at logic and consistency [Thinking (T)] or first look at the people and special circumstances [Feeling (F)]?

Structure: In dealing with the outside world, do you prefer to get things decided [Judging (J)]or do you prefer to stay open to new information and options [Perceiving (P)]?

When you decide on your preference in each category, you have your own personality type, which can be expressed as a code with four letters. For example, I am an INFP (Introverted, Intuition, Feeling, Perceiving).

Take the Test Online

Tests recommended by the Myers Briggs Foundation
MBTI Complete
-  (US $59.95)
CAPT – (US $150 – $175)

Free Tests
BBC Personality Survey
PersonalityType.com – website is owned by the author of Do What You Are
Personality Pathways

2. Understand what you need and want

Once you have determined your personality type, start researching it and doing some soul searching.

Take note of the special abilities your type has. Believe in yourself that these gifts are ones that you possess. Take note of the work style that would be most beneficial to you.

Ask yourself what you would do if you knew you couldn’t fail. If you had all the talent, support, resources, experience, etc. that you needed, what would you do to make a living?

Think about what you want from your life, what you want to accomplish, and what you want to leave behind.

Remember the activities you loved as a child. If it was fun then, it is likely still fun to you today.

3. Put It Together

Now you know what makes you unique and what has, and always will, energize and excite you. Don’t ignore this information as in it lies your purpose.

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  • kathy

    I have found out that it is very important to know your strengths and weakness also there is nothing wrong with reading books and doing some self improvement. If you are quiet, shy, introverted it is a little more work to be an entrepreneur. Good article. Good points.

  • http://www.elasticmind.ca/innerpreneur Tara Joyce

    Hi Kathy,

    Thank you for your comments. As a fellow shy, quiet and introverted person, the innerpreneurial aspects I find hard are 'networking' and other business building activities. One of the things I find so promising about the internet is its ability to connect us with like-minded people, without the need for face-to-face networking. It provides us introverts with a even playing ground, and perhaps an advantage, as we often excel in written communication.

    My friend Jamie at Jamie Ridler Studios suggested that we look at networking in a different light and stop placing so much emphasis and pressure on it. Instead networking should simply be the act of find interesting people and engaging them in conversation. They don't necessarily have to relate to your business or require your expertise, you simply need to find them interesting and want to know more about them. You never know who they might know. I think this technique is important in growing lasting relationships and removing the anxiety many of us feel when we hear the word “networking”.

    Thanks for commenting,

    Tara

  • WebGems

    A really helpful insight into how you can assess your own personality and perhaps simultaneously figure out what truly motivates you and what direction you want your life to take. Push insecurities aside and search for solutions rather than adding to your list of problems.

  • http://www.elasticmind.ca/innerpreneur Tara Joyce

    Thank you, WebGems. You did an excellent job of summarizing my thoughts and rephrasing them in a way I hadn't thought of.

    I am so glad you found my thoughts helpful,

    Tara

  • christian

    I find the test great.The word is an understanding,seeing that i can readily piece together the exact word to say.I have been in a dilemma to discover myself,having resigned from my last employment because it could not meet my parameter of being fulfill all rounded. This test has truly discovered me.THANKS.

  • http://www.elasticmind.ca/innerpreneur Tara Joyce

    Christian, it is my absolute pleasure. Thank you for letting me know how my writing has helped you.

    I wish you the best with your continued self-discovery and evolution.

    Tara

  • dmmoore3

    I love the word innerpreneur. I started “pursuing my passion in October” by starting a non profit business called “Striving for More” which helps kids with cancer. When someone asked me what I did for a living, I was blank. They told me I was a social entrepreneur. Hmm.. I wonder which one will catch on??? Is there a difference? I am blogging my journey to pursue my passion at http://www.striving4grace.blogspot.com. Come check it out. Diane in NC (Purusing her passion by helping kids with cancer after my daughter died of cancer in June 08).

  • http://www.elasticmind.ca/innerpreneur Tara Joyce

    Diane,

    Thank you so much for taking the time to share your story and passion
    with me. My deepest sympathies on the passing of your daughter. You
    are a great inspiration to others as you have taken a difficult life
    event and found meaning in it.

    To answer your question about innerpreneurship vs. social
    entrepreneurship, yes, I would argue that they are different. A
    business entrepreneur typically measures performance in profit and
    return and a social entrepreneur assesses success in terms of the
    impact s/he has on society, whereas an innerpreneur measures
    performance in terms of their own personal satisfaction and growth.
    This satisfaction is weighted in terms of our monetary performance and
    social effects but also incorporates our ability to express our
    individual passions and values and find meaning in our work. As the
    name suggests, I would argue that an innerpreneur is much more
    motivated by their inner self than other types of entrepreneurs.

    I'd love to hear your thoughts on my comments. Thank you again for
    taking the time to share your thoughts with me.

    Tara

  • http://overacupofcoffee.typepad.com/over_a_cup_of_coffee_by_m/ Michelle

    Great post. I am trying to discover my innerpreneur self. I have started my own blog as step 1. I am hoping to build from it ..

  • http://www.elasticmind.ca/innerpreneur Tara Joyce

    Michelle,

    That is a fantastic start. I can't tell you how eye-opening it has been for me to write this blog. In the 10 months I have been writing I have learned so much about myself. I am certain you will find blogging to be a great awareness builder. Best of luck!

  • http://zoe858.wordpress.com Zoe Mcduncan

    Hi,
    I just stumbled and found your blog. I am thinking about opening my own business (online) and I found the information here very insightful. I have also decided to follow you on Twitter.

    Thanks

  • http://www.elasticmind.ca/innerpreneur Tara Joyce

    That is wonderful to hear, Zoe. I wish you the very best with your
    innerpreneurial business and I look forward to chatting with you on
    Twitter.

  • http://www.rentselect.com Randy

    What a great post. In being a business owner, we get to know all to well how things can be intertwined. I love this word innerpreneur. Thanks for taking the time to post!

  • http://www.elasticmind.ca/innerpreneur Tara Joyce

    My pleasure, Randy. I am glad you relate.

  • rentselect

    You have really managed this entire post so well. I congratulate you! You rock! Have a great week!

  • http://www.elasticmind.ca/innerpreneur Tara Joyce

    Hi. Thanks for the email.

    I'm actually in Lisbon, Portugal this week speaking on innerpreneuring
    at the Venture Captial IT conference. (http://www.gesventure.pt/vcit2009/oradores.htm
    )

    I'll be checking my emails regularly but may not get a chance to
    respond to them until I return on May 31st.

    All the best,

    Tara

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  • aidan16m

    I realize this two year ago that the only person can stop you is you, when i read the success principle and did the chart and for some reason i just fall off, running across this article remind me of what i need to do and stop fooling about, i really enjoy reading your article am a fan.., now i know what i need to do, i am starting 2 business and i needed this today… i already know what my PASSION are but i need to find my purpose in order for me to move forward.. with my passion

  • http://www.elasticmind.ca/innerpreneur Tara Joyce

    Awesome, Aidan. I am so happy that my thoughts were of value to you
    and inspired you. I couldn't ask for me!

  • entrepreneur9

    Another interesting read! This will surely help me.

  • http://www.elasticmind.ca/innerpreneur Tara Joyce

    Glad to be of help.

  • http://lifelastingsuccessblog.com/ Irish Business Entrepreneur

    Great tips from a successful entrepreneur herself! Wish you more success! Cheers!

  • http://www.elasticmind.ca/innerpreneur Tara Joyce

    Thank you. Best of luck with your conference.