{"id":4824,"date":"2011-03-17T18:33:51","date_gmt":"2011-03-17T22:33:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.elasticmind.ca\/innerpreneur\/?p=4824"},"modified":"2011-03-17T18:38:51","modified_gmt":"2011-03-17T22:38:51","slug":"me-not-always-communicate-good","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.elasticmind.ca\/innerpreneur\/index.php\/2011\/03\/17\/me-not-always-communicate-good\/","title":{"rendered":"Me Not Always Communicate Good"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"ttr_start\"><\/div><p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-4826\" title=\"Bad Communicator\" src=\"http:\/\/www.elasticmind.ca\/innerpreneur\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/03\/BadCommunicator.jpg\" alt=\"Bad Communicator\" width=\"664\" height=\"248\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.elasticmind.ca\/innerpreneur\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/03\/BadCommunicator.jpg 664w, https:\/\/www.elasticmind.ca\/innerpreneur\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/03\/BadCommunicator-300x112.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 664px) 100vw, 664px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sometimes I really suck at communicating&#8230; yet I&#8217;m also a great communicator. It&#8217;s what I do naturally. But sometimes, I&#8217;m down right terrible with it.<\/p>\n<p>My coach <a title=\"More on the fabulous Teya Sparks\" href=\"http:\/\/teyasparks.com\">Teya Sparks<\/a> reminds me that I need to be willing to be both extremes. That as a human being, it is only natural.<\/p>\n<p>As a perfectionist, it seems insane. How can I make a career around communication and also be a bad communicator? <strong>I must be the best communicator ever. always. period.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>But I am not. Sometimes I suck.<\/p>\n<h3>Not a Great Communication Moment<\/h3>\n<p>Like last week, <a title=\"Getting Closer to the Truth of Me\" href=\"http:\/\/www.elasticmind.ca\/innerpreneur\/index.php\/2011\/03\/08\/getting-closer-to-the-truth-of-me\/\">when I wrote about discovering my designer<\/a>, I kinda forgot to inform my current clients of the post before I published it. It was a bad communication move on my part not to inform my current clients ahead of time and explain the &#8216;change&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>The reality is, nothing <em>has actually<\/em> changed with my clients, I still work with them the same way but THEY didn&#8217;t know that when I published the article. I gave some of them a scare.<\/p>\n<h3>Me Communicating Good<strong><br \/>\n<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>I&#8217;d like to take this moment to express clearly what I did not clearly communicate last week. I have realized that:<\/p>\n<p class=\"note\" align=\"center\"><strong>I am a designer who employs coaching, not a coach that employs design.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This does not change how I create with others. I still think coaching and co-creation is the most strategic way to design one&#8217;s marketing and communication tactics.<\/p>\n<p>There is, however, a change in how I see myself. I&#8217;m now ready to see and embrace what I am.<\/p>\n<div class=\"ttr_end\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-4826\" title=\"Bad Communicator\" src=\"http:\/\/www.elasticmind.ca\/innerpreneur\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/03\/BadCommunicator.jpg\" alt=\"Bad Communicator\" width=\"664\" height=\"248\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.elasticmind.ca\/innerpreneur\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/03\/BadCommunicator.jpg 664w, https:\/\/www.elasticmind.ca\/innerpreneur\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/03\/BadCommunicator-300x112.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 664px) 100vw, 664px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sometimes I really suck at communicating&#8230; yet I&#8217;m also a great communicator. It&#8217;s what I do naturally. But sometimes, I&#8217;m down right terrible with it.<\/p>\n<p>My coach <a title=\"More on the fabulous Teya Sparks\" href=\"http:\/\/teyasparks.com\">Teya Sparks<\/a> reminds me that I need to be willing to be both extremes. That as a human being, it is only natural.<\/p>\n<p>As a perfectionist, it seems insane. How can I make a career around communication and also be a bad communicator? <strong>I must be the best communicator ever. always. period.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>But I am not. Sometimes I suck.<\/p>\n<h3>Not a Great Communication Moment<\/h3>\n<p>Like last week, <a title=\"Getting Closer to the Truth of Me\" href=\"http:\/\/www.elasticmind.ca\/innerpreneur\/index.php\/2011\/03\/08\/getting-closer-to-the-truth-of-me\/\">when I wrote about discovering my designer<\/a>,<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4824","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-growing"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.elasticmind.ca\/innerpreneur\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4824","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.elasticmind.ca\/innerpreneur\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.elasticmind.ca\/innerpreneur\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elasticmind.ca\/innerpreneur\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elasticmind.ca\/innerpreneur\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4824"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.elasticmind.ca\/innerpreneur\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4824\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.elasticmind.ca\/innerpreneur\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4824"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elasticmind.ca\/innerpreneur\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4824"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.elasticmind.ca\/innerpreneur\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4824"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}