{"id":8083,"date":"2014-12-19T18:42:48","date_gmt":"2014-12-19T23:42:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.elasticmind.ca\/innerpreneur\/?p=8083"},"modified":"2016-07-05T17:55:50","modified_gmt":"2016-07-05T21:55:50","slug":"stories-truth-might-call","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.elasticmind.ca\/innerpreneur\/index.php\/2014\/12\/19\/stories-truth-might-call\/","title":{"rendered":"If Our Stories Were Our Truth, We Might Call Them That"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"ttr_start\"><\/div><p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/40033576@N03\/4250841002\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.elasticmind.ca\/innerpreneur\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/TrueStory.png\" alt=\"photo credit Alessandra Di Nunno\" width=\"640\" height=\"248\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-8088\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.elasticmind.ca\/innerpreneur\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/TrueStory.png 640w, https:\/\/www.elasticmind.ca\/innerpreneur\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/12\/TrueStory-300x116.png 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>We share stories to share our voice and our perspective in a way we feel will be emotionally impactful. We craft our stories in a particular way, changing them each time we tell them. We craft them from our experience and imagination, and the beautifully unique way we each perceive our world. <strong>They&#8217;re not the truth, nor our truth. <em>They are our stories.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s not even the whole story that we get the privilege of hearing or sharing with each other when we&#8217;re storytelling. It&#8217;s only a glimpse that we can see, and\/or show in our moment of connection together. It might sound like the complete story I&#8217;m sharing but please believe me, it&#8217;s only part of a greater whole. The truth, my truth, is far more nuanced and complex than my story can share.<\/p>\n<p>If our stories were our truth, we might call them that.<\/p>\n<p>I love stories&#8230; but I don&#8217;t put a lot of energy into them. My stories and the stories of others are here to entertain, to persuade, to educate but to take them as &#8220;the truth&#8221; or to hold my own experiences up to them in comparison, is a game I&#8217;d rather not play.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;d rather work on treating stories lightly, for my own health and happiness. They are not &#8220;the truth&#8221;, nor &#8220;my truth&#8221;. Our stories are a reflection of us and our own unique way of perceiving things. They&#8217;re our version of events. They&#8217;re our tools for connection, for empathy and for identity. They&#8217;re integral to us but they are not, and can not, be all that we are. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.elasticmind.ca\/innerpreneur\/index.php\/2014\/12\/08\/youre-much-more-story\/\" title=\"You\u2019re So Much More Than Your Story\">We are so much more than our stories.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>photo credit: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/40033576@N03\/4250841002\" title=\"Alessandra Di Nunno\" target=\"_blank\">Alessandra Di Nunno<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<div class=\"ttr_end\"><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We share stories to share our voice and our perspective in a way we feel will be emotionally impactful. We craft our stories in a particular way, changing them each time we tell them. We craft them from our experience and imagination, and the beautifully unique way we each perceive our world. 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