The People Who Don’t Get It

We see people and things not as they are, but as we are. How aware we are informs what we see—and how we see it. Ubuntu – I am because you are. People who don’t seem to get it are seemingly everywhere. We find them in our families, at work, and in all...

Getting to Know Your Garbage

Here’s a bit of my garbage… I have a tendency to attach to other people’s garbage. I magnetize to the parts of people that they have decided have no value and have thrown away. I can’t stand how their not responsible to these parts, and I...

Emotional Self-Abandonment

We, as humans, have a tendency to use our mind to negate our emotions. We use our mind as a tool to abandon how we feel. I know, personally, I often use my mind to abandon my negative feelings, especially when they are directed at someone I love. In these moments,...

Reality is What You Make It

Despite how we talk about it, reality isn’t one thing. One stream. One truth. Reality is defined and designed by you, the individual. And, by design, you get to decide how “real” you want your reality to be. You are given the possibility, and the...

Addicted to the Pain

Do you ever get so addicted to the pain of something that you don’t want to break out of it? Have you ever felt so much pain and so consistently that you start to feel you deserve it — that it’s meant to be there? Have you ever stayed with your pain — not...