2 posts from month 10/2013

315.365 i want:

The Want of Others

The wants of others used to matter to me. I thought somehow they were mine to fulfill. At some point I decided that while my wants didn't matter too much, other people's were of paramount importance. I convinced myself I was being caring, or helpful, or altruistic, or some other adjective that bathed me in a golden light, in giving what they wanted. I allowed other people's wants, and the fulfillment of them, to become my concern. And while I pretended to be okay with it, and ...

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elastic mind reboot


I've made some changes around here. After 5+ years, my website, my online home, felt like it didn't fit me anymore. So I decided to fashion myself a new dress. And I'm excited to share it with you. I hope you love it, as I do. I've been in heaven over the last two weeks, creating it. It's be hard to focus on much else. What I'm most excited about is the new space I've created on elastic mind for my writing. It feels so good to have reached a place in my life where I am ready to ...

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