Criticize, Condemn, and Complain
No matter what you do or don't do, I always have a choice in how I communicate with you. You can't make me do or feel anything.
If I choose to not consciously communicate, I am choosing to give away my power. Whether I am attempting to feel small or big in front of you, my unconscious words are reducing me to less than I am.
If you can stay steady in you, I can't claim your power. Despite my anger-filled desire, my words can't possibly do this. Nothing external can.
Only you can ...