7 posts tagged relationships

Asking My Mentor About… Sharing What I Do

Exploring Peer-to-Peer Mentoring Christine Dionese and I are Peer-to-Peer Mentoring each other. Here's what we've been asking each other about lately...

Christine's Question

"Generally I'm the one handing out relationship advice, but looks like I need a fresh take on this one! I have always had great success working with friends. I'm in the beginning stages of a new project with a friend and I'm already thinking I may need to dissolve the business side of it. I move fast and work fast... and they don't. I can appreciate every effort a snail makes, but not in this case. How can I continue to move ahead, pursuing the project, but solo? Any advice for tactfully going about this with my friend?"

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My Question:

"You have multiple skills and talents that you bring together to shape your unique service offerings; in the face of this diversity of skills, do you have techniques for clearly articulating each offering (and how they might fit together) to someone who is not familiar with your work? What is your approach when (and if) your offerings are not clearly understood by that person?"

Christine's Answer:

Great question and one I work toward answering on a regular basis. My main hub christinedionese.com tells my multi-faceted story so I tend to readily refer strangers there all the time... in the about section I start off in the first person by saying, “Everyday I straddle the dimensions of multiple worlds.” Right from the get-go I’m letting folks know that I offer multi-faceted skills and services.

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It’s Not You, It’s Me

Push Here I behave and you think it's because of you. You take my choices personally.

It's not about you

My choices have nothing to do with you. Even when they are in reaction to you. How I behave is about me.

It's my stuff

It's about me. Despite what I might say. Even when I tell you you're not good enough.

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