7 posts tagged fear

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A Choice to Create and a Choice to Share

Each day that I am blessed with, I'm faced with a variety of choices. Some are small, others are not. The choices I make define me and my world. Each day I work on my resistance to creating and to sharing. For creating and sharing are choices I make that, ultimately, I am not comfortable with, though I consistently work to choose them. To create exposes me to my own judgements, and to share exposes me to yours. And for me, both are equally terrifying. My history had taught me that ...

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On Pretense

It is a way of being that prevents connection. It is presenting a false story about myself and my life in order to control others perception of me. It's a form of marketing or more specifically advertising, and it's neither mindful nor empowering. While in my pretense, I'm not valuing my contributions fully nor am I fully valuing the contributions others. I am not being honest about who I am. I am determining certain elements of me are better and more desirable. How does it ...

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