2 posts tagged take

Takers Gonna Take

It's really lovely to know that through giving freely, I can inspire someone to be more giving. Sometimes though, I encounter a person who consciously (or unconsciously) feels free to consistently take more than they give. I need to watch my balance with them. For as much as I love to give, and to encourage it, I don't enjoy feeling used. With this kind of person, I need to check in with my giving self, and be honest about who they are and what they want from me.

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It’s Not You, It’s Me

Push Here I behave and you think it's because of you. You take my choices personally.

It's not about you

My choices have nothing to do with you. Even when they are in reaction to you. How I behave is about me.

It's my stuff

It's about me. Despite what I might say. Even when I tell you you're not good enough.

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