Rights I Sometimes Feel Wrong About

A list of things that I am learning to not feel wrong about… as they are my right, as an individual: My right to chose when and how I interact with people. My right to chose what motivates me. My right to care… or not. My right to know why it’s good...

The Perfection of Imperfection

What if my imperfections were my road map for growth and becoming more perfectly, joyfully me? What if embracing and supporting my imperfections could lead me to spaces I’ve never been before? I am not perfect. And I desire to feel totally happy letting the...

Because My Gut Says So

I can find it pretty easy to question my feelings, especially when they’re contrary to the people around me. I might decide I’m being illogical, or overly emotional, or perhaps unreasonable. Whatever I choose, I’ll determine the uncomfortable feeling...

I Don’t Feel Like Playing Anymore

There are a lot of rules to my game. Too many to follow it seems. There are the rules I’ve learned from others. And then there are the ones I’ve wrote myself. It can be easier to see the rules and expectations others have imparting on me, but the ones I...

The End of My Superficial Relationship

For decades I’ve been in a casual relationship with you. I wasn’t ready to commit to you fully. Today, I am not feeling so balanced, and my commitment to you, as usual, wants to falter. And yet I am here. This is what we’ve been working towards. A space where I...